Ever feel
like hurrying things along? I do. I get tempted to take short cuts, to get it
over with. Like this mess I was in with a ball of yarn. I was almost to the end
of this scarf project and suddenly the last bit of yarn was a tangled knot. I
tugged. I twisted. I tried to patiently work it under, over and through to get
it straightened out. But, it seemed the more I tugged the worse it became.
That’s when
you look for the scissors.
Just snip it
off and be done with it.
I couldn’t
do it. I needed that last bit of yarn for a couple of rows and to join the two
ends to make an infinity scarf. Snipping it would just ruin the project.
This reminds
me of a story about a butterfly emerging from its chrysalis while someone
eagerly waited. The butterfly seemed to be stuck; it pushed and pumped trying
to free itself. Finally, the onlooker couldn’t stand it—it was taking much too
long. So, he decided to snip the top of the chrysalis with a tiny pair of
scissors—just to help it along.
The
butterfly did get free pretty quickly after that—but instead of being beautiful
and ready to fly, it looked stunted and deformed, hobbling about, and
eventually died.
You see, the
process of emerging from the chrysalis pumps fluid into the butterfly’s wings
and expands them so they can be strong and used for their intended purpose.
Though the one who snipped the chrysalis thought he was being merciful in
helping to free the butterfly from its prison, he really doomed it from ever
attaining its full potential.
How often do
we want to help God along, thinking we know what’s best? It may be for ourselves
or someone we know. We hate to see them struggle and wait. So, thinking we are
being of help, we intervene.
Often, the
bit of struggle is needed to make us strong and able to reach our full
potential. Our good intent is really interfering with God’s best for the
situation.
It took more
than thirty minutes to unravel my tangled yarn. But, the end product was worth
the effort.
So if you
are tempted to grab the scissors, seek the Lord and ask for His direction for
the situation. Sometimes, He needs us to stay out of the way so He can do the work. The result—will be His best!
Consider
others who tried to “help” God:
Abraham and
Sarah, when after years they still didn’t have a child
Rebecca and
Jacob, when the birthright was on the line
Can you
think of others?
What experiences have you had with trying to help?
Staying out of His way is something I struggle with a lot. Thanks for this uplifting post...
ReplyDeleteI think we ALL struggle, Carol. We are human. Thanks for your thoughts
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